There is a certain guy that can describe exactly what charming means, and that guy is Benji. Benji is the literal definition of charming, perfect, amazing and everything.
When you meet a Benji just know that you are gonna fall for him whether you like it or not, his charm and intelligence is enough to blow anyone of their feet, and benji certainly did to me. He will make you feel butterflies and he will make you realise what true happiness is.
If you have a benji in your life never EVER let him go, because that could be your biggest mistake ever. He knows what to do to make you smile, and he makes your heart so happy and warm. If you know a benji then you are one lucky person always remember that.
Benji is the literal definition of charming. Benji is hella charming ngl. Someone who is a serial killer. When you speak to her she seems to have a lot of good qualities. She is someone that is generally likable. They can both be used in the same context.
The one learning a language! Learn about premium features. Tired of searching? HiNative can help you find that answer you're looking for. Register for free. Life is really, really short. Everybody is already judging you anyway. People are always making judgments about you! Sometimes, you may just happen to annoy people accidentally. It happens to everybody. No one is immune to this! And it has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with them. Strive for nothing! Be nothing, and think nothing.
Just be completely useless! But guess what, people will judge you for that, too!! These kinds of people are not charming. Bounce back on the level of others.
What do I mean? Ask them about it; try to understand. Is your man serious about committing to you? What can I do right NOW that will make me feel free and lighten up? What would I need to think, believe, feel or do right NOW , to begin seeing the good side of this situation? Finding the positive meaning in everything is the ability to add value to yourself and others especially when it matters.
When does it matter most? When others are low on their emotional resources and you become their beacon of light. Whenever you meet, engage with, or see someone, maintain eye contact. Listen and be attentive. Have you ever been saying something to someone, and they look like they are off in space, and you feel like a bit of a donkey for speaking whilst no-one is listening? By the way, people are able to do this due to a thing known as the phonological loop , a part of the brain that takes whatever is coming into your ears, and it plays it over and over again for a few seconds in your head after you hear it.
There you have it. A lack of presence negates charm. Again; maintain eye contact, listen and be attentive. The first type of charm is the kind of charm that comes from focusing solely on others. The second type of charm is the kind of charm that comes from focusing on yourself.
Like the kind of charm psychopaths tend to exhibit! Think about it. Admittedly, great charm comes from a focus on others. But a truly charming woman has the ability to be both without trying to prove anything to anybody.
Because they still manage to engage people. They are generally able to make people feel GOOD. People who are able to be charming through a focus on themselves often draw you in further to them through their self-focus, and ability to make fun of themselves or intrigue you.
Be aware of the two kinds of charm, and choose wisely. But ultimately, if you truly care for others, you can use either charm and be in a win-win situation. Have FUN!! You pinch their face, and they laugh! You clap your hands, they laugh! You make a silly face, and they laugh, and laugh and laugh!
And you want to be around this baby because he or she makes you feel GOOD!
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